Plan for Your Future this Valentine’s Day
While it doesn't sound as glamorous as a surprise proposal or a weekend getaway, planning for your future is one of the most profound acts of self-love you can do, not just for yourself - but for your relationship.
Research indicates that couples who regularly discuss finances tend to experience better relationship outcomes. A study from the Centre for Economic Policy Research found that couples often underestimate the benefits of financial conversations, which can lead to increased savings and the achievement of mutual financial goals.
Additionally, a study published in the Journal of Financial Therapy highlighted that effective financial communication is essential for developing shared meanings and goals within relationships. Couples who struggle to discuss finances often experience poorer relationship outcomes.
Think about it, when you take the time to plan for your future, you’re saying, “I value myself, my partner, and the life we’re building together, making sure we’re prepared for whatever comes our way.” What’s more romantic than that?
This year, celebrate Valentine’s Day by having a conversation about your future, especially your retirement and financial goals - ensuring you’re both aligned and ready to build a secure, fulfilling life together.
Why Future Planning is Self-Love
Let’s get real for a second, life is unpredictable. Jobs change, health issues, and unexpected expenses pop up. When you plan for the future, you’re giving yourself and your partner the priceless gift of stability. It’s like creating a safety cushion that helps you navigate life’s challenges without feeling like everything is crumbling around you.
Self-love isn’t just about getting enough sleep or a massage. It’s about taking care of your future self and making decisions today that will make your life more fulfilling down the road. When you're in a relationship, that self-love naturally extends to your partner. When you plan together, it’s a way of saying you’re always there for each other, no matter the challenges.
